Your childhood is the biggest influence on your adulthood...
The way you are is a direct reflection of how you were raised. Often times I have conversations about the characteristics of people and basically it comes down to their upbringing. If you were hugged and shown affection throughout your younger years, chances are that you turn out to be a loving and affectionate person. You will either become three things as an adult.... just like your parents, nothing like your parents or try so hard to be nothing like them that you end up doing the things that they did and don't realize it.
Myself and friends always discuss the foolery and ratchetness and my response is always 'They didn't get enough hugs as a kid, why else would they act that way.'
If you're a parent that's reading this, then I suggest that you set that example of what you wish your child(ren) to become. Remind them that you love them as often as possible and teach respect. Fathers, hold them girls... show them what a man is and she always will have high standards and never go searching in the wrong places because she already knows what a man's love should feel like.
I'm not a psychiatrist... just a man Learning From Experience!!!
Be Blessed
-Esco
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